When our mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, we started a new tradition: an annual holiday picture card. Christmas has always been her favorite holiday, so it felt fitting to celebrate each year with a snapshot of joy. What began as a way to help family and friends stay connected during the pandemic has become so much more—an unexpected source of laughter, connection, and conversation.
That first card was a hit. My parents’ anniversary is in August, but we couldn’t celebrate with a big party because of the pandemic. So when the card arrived in December, friends and family were thrilled to see them celebrating such a milestone. Many called to wish them a happy anniversary and a Merry Christmas. It gave everyone a reason to reach out, to see our mom and the milestone—not just the diagnosis.
Our advice? Pick a photo where your loved one looks most like themselves, and pick a moment that can spark conversation. We’ve learned how powerful it is to see those smiles captured and to know our story has become a favorite for our friends and family. It’s turned into a joyful memory we get to create with our mom each year, and it’s our way of sharing that “Alz Good”—even if things are changing.
We’re already working on the 2024 card, but we’ll keep the details a surprise until Christmas Day when we’ll share them on Instagram. The anticipation and excitement for the next card are palpable, and we can’t wait to share the surprise and delight of the reveal with our friends and family.